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Every church stands in constant need of faithful men in leadership. Scripture commands us to pray earnestly for them. A church that prays for godly leaders will have God providing and strengthening the church with godly leadership.

First, while we thank God for calling and appointing men to various offices of the church to serve Him, we must pray for His provision of more godly men in leadership. Acts 13:2–3 recorded how the early church prayed and sent men into the ministry – “As they ministered to the Lord, and fasted, the Holy Ghost said, Separate me Barnabas and Saul for the work whereunto I have called them. And when they had fasted and prayed, and laid their hands on them, they sent them away.”

Second, pray for their spiritual watchfulness. The writer of Hebrews reminds us, “Obey them that have the rule over you… for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account” (Hebrews 13:17). Pastors and elders will one day answer to God for their care of your souls. Pray that they may live in holy fear, guarding both their own hearts and the flock entrusted to them.

Third, pray for boldness and clarity in preaching. The apostle Paul requested prayer, saying, “Pray for us” (1 Thessalonians 5:25). He also asked “that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the mystery of the gospel” (Ephesians 6:19). Pray that they may preach with courage, faithfulness, and compassion, never shrinking from declaring the whole counsel of God.

Fourth, pray for their protection from temptation and discouragement. Paul exhorted Timothy, “Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine” (1 Timothy 4:16). Ask the Lord to preserve your leaders in purity of life and soundness of doctrine. Spiritual leaders face unique pressures, opposition, and unseen battles. Ask the Lord to guard their hearts from moral compromise, preserve them from discouragement, and strengthen them against every attack of the enemy. Paul’s words to the church in Thessalonica testify to it – “pray for us… that we may be delivered from unreasonable and wicked men” (2 Thessalonians 3:1–2). Pray also for their families. A leader must be one who “ruleth well his own house” (1 Timothy 3:4). The enemy often targets the home to wound the shepherd. Pray for unity, joy, and strength within their households.

Finally, pray that they may serve with joy. Hebrews 13:17 urges that they may do their work “with joy, and not with grief”. A praying congregation becomes a source of encouragement rather than a burden. Pray that they may be upheld in purity of life, steadfastness of spirit, and unwavering faithfulness to sound doctrine. Beloved, if you desire strong preaching and faithful oversight, then become a praying people. Lift up your leaders daily before the throne of grace.

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Baptism Testimony

Noel Resuma

I was born and raised in the Roman Catholic faith, but was also involved in several organizations, including the charismatic movement, the Samaritans, the Knights of Columbus, and Couples for Christ, in which I served for the longest period of time. After seven years in Couples for Christ, I became a Cluster Head overseeing about one hundred couples from four different towns. Looking back, I realise that although I was zealous in serving the Lord, I was doing so according to my own ways and desires, without a clear calling from Him. I believed I was serving the Lord faithfully because I prayed, read, and meditated on God’s Word regularly. I also taught groups on several occasions, emphasising faith in Jesus Christ and the need for prayerfulness to avoid the return of the unclean spirit (cf. Matthew 12:43–45). Regrettably, I was the very one who experienced this truth when I entered politics. I became full of myself and found myself busy serving people without God—neglecting prayer and Bible reading—and living a life apart from Him. Though I knew I was a sinner, and had repented and accepted Jesus Christ as my Saviour and Lord, I was not walking in close communion with Him. While I sincerely engaged in all these things within Roman Catholicism, I lacked a clear understanding of the saving Gospel of Christ.

Though painful and difficult, I thank God for His chastening. I suffered a mild stroke, which resulted in numbness on the left side of my body from head to foot. In 2021, my wife was diagnosed with colon cancer and, after two years of pain and suffering, was called home to be with the Lord. Following her burial, while we were still in our period of mourning, I joined my son, his wife, and their children in Cebu for the church’s BW-GYF retreat. During that retreat, as I listened to the Word of God preached by several pastors and preachers, my heart was touched and gradually opened to His truth. From that time onward, instead of dwelling on negative thoughts—sadly born out of my resentment and discouragement after all that had happened to us—I began to count the many blessings God has bestowed upon me. Despite my physical infirmity, I am still able to walk, speak normally, and even drive. God has blessed me with three children and six grandchildren. He has never abandoned us; He has faithfully provided for our needs and far more than we could ask for. I am now here in Singapore—something I never imagined—living with my son, daughter-in-law, and grandchildren, and I am deeply thankful to be with them.

As I read the Bible, I came across Matthew 7:7, which teaches that if we ask, it shall be given; if we seek, we shall find; and if we knock, the door shall be opened unto us. Once again, I asked the Lord to forgive me of my many sins and to grant me faith as I seek His truth and righteousness, knocking at His door that He may accept me into His kingdom while there is still time—for my life on this earth is like the setting sun. Though I continue to struggle against sins, I am assured of my salvation, “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9). I have confessed my faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He is the way, the truth, and the life (cf. John 14:6). Therefore, when the Lord calls me home, I am ready to enter His kingdom. May God’s will be done, not mine.

During my short stay here in Singapore, I thank God for the opportunity to learn the fundamental doctrines of Christian faith at Gethsemane BPC through the catechism class. I desire to grow further through the preaching of God’s Word, and I now take this step of faith to be baptized, being convicted of my faith in Jesus Christ and seeking to renew my commitment to follow the Lord all the days of my life. May the Lord find me faithful and use me for His honour and glory.

Motherhood is a sacred calling, yet it is also a season filled with weariness, spiritual battles, emotional strain, and moments when home life feels overwhelming. Many godly women quietly carry burdens that were never meant to be carried alone.

The testimonies published below from some of our young mothers remind us that the Lord has been pleased to strengthen mothers and care for their peculiar spiritual needs, through the ministry of Gethsemane Young Mothers’ Fellowship.

Spiritual growth is not always a straight upward line. Yet the Lord is faithful to keep His people when they gather under His truth, and submit their hearts afresh to Him. We are grateful that God preserves and blesses families through wise counsel and encouragement through the regular ministry of His Word in their fellowship meetings.

That is why, young mothers, your monthly gathering matters. It is not merely a social meeting. It is a small but precious means of grace—an opportunity to be reminded that you are not alone, and that the counsels of His Word taught are much needed for the home, your marriage, and the raising of children. In a world that pressures mothers to be self-reliant, God calls His daughters to be mutually strengthened in love, prayer, and truth.

Come with your burdens, your weariness, your questions, and your desire to grow. The Lord is able to use our faithful gathering each month to preserve a mother’s heart, and through her, an entire home.

Let us come together and be strengthened. As Isaiah 40:11 exhorts, “He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those that are with young.”

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Testimonies of Young Mothers

Jenice Chee

I want to thank God for the Young Mothers’ Fellowship which has been a great blessing to me, especially so in the year 2025, where we learnt precious lessons on the series of “Motherhood—A Christlike Ministry”.

One lesson that impressed deeply on my heart was how Pastor explained that as a mother, I must be my child’s cultivator of holiness. This means that I must study God’s Word so that I may impart it to my children. And this is not only for a season, but that the truths will remain with them and guide them beyond my lifetime.

I also learnt that I must be like Christ at home. Like Jesus who is so patient and compassionate with me, I must be likewise with my children. Like Jesus who endured rejections, I too must be firm and steadfast on the truth.

Thank God for Pastor and Aunty Carolyn, the GYM committee advisors, and other mothers (young and old) that have been good examples for me to emulate. I am excited to learn about common current-day challenges in parenting through this year 2026. May God help us!

Isabel Ng

“That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed” (Titus 2:4-5).

I want to thank God for the Gethsemane Young Mothers (GYM). This was the first fellowship I attended with my daughter Annabelle (then 3 years old) when we began with Gethsemane BPC as regular visitors in Jan 2017. Truly, GYM was a blessing to my personal and family life, where I learnt timely truths from God’s Word through Pastor Koshy. It teaches me about godly submission to one’s own husband, and being a sober-minded wife and mother so that I would not jeopardise my testimony at home and destroy my family life with ungodly decisions.

To me, GYM has been a true lifeline. Time and again, God has used it to confront me with His Word and bring me into surrender to His truth, especially in seasons when family relationships grow volatile and I’m carrying the weight of raising my children full-time (children who are as sinful as I am, and in constant need of grace). Without God’s Word—and GYM—my family life would probably end up as one of those tragic, bitter stories you read about, marked by heated arguments, divorce, and children left neglected.

It was also through GYM that I became convinced that staying home full-time was the only faithful response to God, after coming to understand His heart for Christian wives and mothers through His Word. Though my children’s and my spiritual growth has not always been linear upward, and though there were many dark moments along the way, the Lord was gracious to preserve us as one family. Through many years of admonition and uplifting through GYM, He kept us intact. May God help us to “…continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety” (1 Timothy 2:15).

Thank God for the labours of Pastor and preachers through the years. My prayer is for more Christian sisters, especially young mothers, to come to GYM and be blessed by God for the sake of our families’ and children’s spiritually well-being. All glory be to God.

Sophia Zhang

The Gethsemane Young Mothers’ Fellowship has been a great blessing throughout my years of motherhood. I am deeply thankful for the faithful preaching of God’s Word during our meetings; it has consistently rebuked, corrected, instructed, and encouraged me. Without the guidance of God’s Word, it is so easy to be influenced by worldly parenting advice and pressures that often run contrary to biblical counsel.

I have learnt that motherhood is a Christlike ministry where I must set a godly example for my children, both through my words and actions. Even during testing moments, such as facing disobedience from the children, I am reminded to reflect God’s compassion and tender care, while leaning on His wisdom to correct and instruct my children. While motherhood comes with many challenges, I draw strength and joy from knowing that God grants the grace and wisdom required to fulfil this higher calling. I am also thankful for the prayer sessions, where we can share testimonies of God’s goodness to our families, bring our burdens before the Lord, and encourage one another through prayer. These times of fellowship have been a great source of comfort and strengthening.

As Psalm 127:1 reminds us, “Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it”. We truly need to labour with the Lord to raise our children according to His ways and for His purposes. It is my prayer that more mothers with young children, and even mothers-to-be, will join us to learn God’s counsel and receive the many blessings He has promised. 

Joey Peh

“He maketh the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise ye the LORD” (Psalm 113:9).

I praise the Lord for the Gethsemane Young Mothers’ Fellowship, which has been a constant fountain of blessing in my motherhood journey. How wonderful it is to gather, month after month, with like-minded sisters and their children — to hear God’s Word, as well as seek Him in prayer together!

In a culture saturated with parenting philosophies that contradict Scripture, the messages preached by Pastor Koshy anchor me in biblical truth. I have also been challenged to see motherhood not merely as a role I perform, but as a Christlike ministry where I must daily die to self. May God give me much grace and wisdom each day to point my son to Christ.

As announced in recent weeks, our church’s 2025 Annual Congregational Meeting (ACM) will be held today at 4:00 p.m. in the SingPost Level 5 Auditorium. We encourage all members to attend prayerfully, and participate in this important gathering.

Necessity of ACM

ACM is not merely an administrative necessity, but an expression of the church’s biblical order and faithfulness. Scripture calls God’s people to accountability and orderly governance. 

The early church likewise gathered regularly to deliberate and report God’s work among them. Paul and Barnabas reported to the church – “And when they were come, and had gathered the church together, they rehearsed all that God had done with them, and how he had opened the door of faith unto the Gentiles” (Acts 14:27). Such purposeful gatherings helped in the recounting and discerning of God’s guidance and work among churches through the brethren. Likewise, Acts 15:4 records, “And when they were come to Jerusalem, they were received of the church, and of the apostles and elders, and they declared all things that God had done with them.”  Such assemblies also encouraged accountability, and demonstrated that church decisions flow from prayerful reflection on God’s providence.

The Bible admonishes Christians to demonstrate stewardship – “Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful” (1 Corinthians 4:2) – as well as to endeavour “to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace” (Ephesians 4:3). 

In our ACM, let us express our obedience to Christ’s headship of the church, our fellowship as a covenantal community of God’s people, and our commitment to conduct His work faithfully and orderly. Scripture teaches that “God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints” (1 Corinthians 14:33). Therefore, every church assembly, especially the ACM, must reflect the decency and order that honour Christ, the Head of the church (Colossians 1:18). “Let all things be done decently and in order” (1 Corinthians 14:40). 

The church is a spiritual body of believers governed by Christ through His ordained officers, namely pastors and elders (cf. 1 Timothy 3; Titus 1). Preachers and deacons co-labour with them faithfully in the shepherding of the flock, and in overseeing the various ministries of the church, both in Singapore and abroad. The ACM provides an annual opportunity for the congregation to give account, renew unity, and reaffirm their shared commitment to God’s work. 

Biblical Principles for Orderliness

Order in church governance and our meetings is not a matter of convenience, but of obedience to Christ’s revealed will. The following principles ensure biblical orderliness:

a. The Authority of Scripture:

Every report, motion, and decision must conform to the Word of God. The church does not legislate new truth, but administers the revealed will of Christ (2 Timothy 3:16–17).

b. The Role of Elders:

According to the Church Constitution, the Pastor, on behalf of the Elders, presides over the ACM (cf. 1 Timothy 5:17; Hebrews 13:7, 17). The Elders supervise the meeting not as executives, but as shepherds, “taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind; neither as being lords over God’s heritage, but being ensamples to the flock” (1 Peter 5:2–3). The Elders ensure that all proceedings are conducted in a manner that is decent, charitable and edifying, with the help of deacons and other brethren appointed to assist in practical arrangements and the orderly facilitation of the meeting.

c. Church Members’ Participation:

Members of the church are called to participate responsibly, asking questions with respect, voting prayerfully when elections or other matters arise, and supporting the church’s decisions with a spirit of unity and mutual commitment to glorify the LORD. This reflects the harmony of 1 Corinthians 12, where every member contributes to the body’s health.

d. The Spirit of Prayer and Grace:

The ACM begins and concludes with prayer, seeking God’s wisdom and guidance for the meeting and for all the affairs of the church conducted under His sovereign care. The meeting should reflect a spirit of order, peace and mutual encouragement, remembering Scripture’s call that “all things be done unto edifying” (1 Corinthians 14:26b).

Practical Suggestions to Maintain Order

a. Preparation:

Review the distributed reports and agenda, and pray thoughtfully. Submit your queries early to the BOE Secretary (ng_pohkok@hotmail.com) or to Pastor (pastor.gbpc@gmail.com). Preparation prevents confusion and impulsive debate.

b. Moderation:

The chairman (pastor) will moderate discussions firmly yet pastorally, ensuring that the business of the meeting is conducted decently and without disorder.

c. Transparency and Integrity:

Financial statements, ministry reports, and membership records shall be presented with honesty, accuracy and transparency, and received in a spirit of gratitude and trust, thereby strengthening accountability and unity in the church.

d. Spiritual Focus During the Meeting:

The portion of the meeting designated for thanksgiving and exhortation shall be used to give due recognition to God’s faithfulness, and to reaffirm the congregation’s commitment to the mission and ministry of the church. Throughout the meeting, every participant shall conduct himself with reverence towards God, and with brotherly love towards one another, in keeping with the spirit of Christian fellowship.

Conclusion

An orderly ACM is not a mere institutional formality; it is an act of worship. When conducted in submission to Scripture, guided by the elders, and characterised by humility and truth, it glorifies God, strengthens unity, and models the heavenly order of Christ’s kingdom. The church that honours the biblical orderliness in her meetings reflects the beauty of divine order, where grace governs, peace prevails, and Christ is exalted among His people.

A Thanksgiving Reflection on Giving in Our Church

Over the past thirty-eight years of our church, God has blessed us to witness a powerful truth continually. Our growth in both local and foreign Gospel work has been significantly advanced through the generous and sacrificial giving of our members and friends.

Time and again, when God opened doors for us to proclaim Christ, whether through church planting, missionary support, evangelism, or strengthening of our home ministries, it was your Spirit-led giving that made those efforts possible. Brethren, moved by a desire to see the church advance in her endeavours for the expansion of the Gospel, have consistently responded with open hearts and open hands, giving not only out of abundance, but often through personal sacrifice.

We saw this once again just two weeks ago. When we brought before you the urgent need to meet the deficit for the current financial year, your response was swift and gracious. Many gave cheerfully and promptly, and by God’s grace, the entire shortfall was fully covered.

This is no small matter. It is a clear mark of God’s hand upon our church, working mightily through us as we walk in faith and obedience, with hearts set on seeking first the kingdom of God. Such generosity not only strengthens the ministry, but also fosters unity, faith and joy within the body.

Let us continue in this spirit. This new fiscal year, we have much more to accomplish in the local and foreign Gospel endeavours. God has given us these opportunities, and we should not hesitate to undertake them. For as we give, we grow in grace, Gospel missions, and eternal fruit for the glory of God.

The Practice of Church Giving

Giving in the church encompasses more than finances. While tithes and offerings are important, the New Testament calls the church to a wide-ranging generosity.

Giving Financially

Paul exhorted the Corinthian church to be intentional and cheerful in their giving: “Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver” (2 Corinthians 9:7). 

Our giving should not be under compulsion, but it should flow from a grateful heart. 

Giving Time and Service

The church must also give of her time and spiritual gifts in service. The apostle Peter exhorts: “As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God” (1 Peter 4:10). 

Every believer has been uniquely gifted by the Holy Spirit, not for self-exaltation, but for the edification of the body and the advancement of the Gospel. When the members of Christ’s church offer their time and talents willingly and joyfully, the whole body thrives. 

Whether one has the gift of teaching, serving, encouraging, leading, praying, showing mercy, or organising ministries, each has a role to play in building up the church. A giving church is a working, serving church. And a serving church is a growing church.

Spiritual gifts left unused are like lamps hidden under a bushel. But when offered to the Lord, they become instruments of divine grace, pointing others to Christ and strengthening the household of faith. 

Likewise, time is also a sacred gift from God, woven with divine purpose. Each moment carries opportunities ordained by His providence—to serve, to grow, to bless, and to glorify Him. To value time rightly is to recognise that every hour holds a doorway to obey the will and purposes of the One who orders our steps. The stewardship of God-given time and gift is not optional; it is a sacred trust. 

Giving Love and Forgiveness

Perhaps the most powerful gift a church can offer is genuine love and forgiveness. “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:35). The early church’s growth was fuelled by her passionate love and hospitality. They broke bread together with gladness and singleness of heart, bearing one another’s burdens, meeting one another’s needs, and welcoming strangers as family. Whether Jew or Gentile, rich or poor, male or female—all found equal footing at the foot of the cross. This Christlike love was the fragrance of the early church, drawing multitudes who longed for truth and hope. When the early church practised this kind of generosity, the results were astonishing: “And the multitude of them that believed were of one heart and of one soul: neither said any of them that ought of the things which he possessed was his own; but they had all things common” (Acts 4:32). Their giving created unity, eradicated need, and built mutual trust in the community.

In these days of selfishness and bitter quarrels, genuine love is very rare in this world. Even in churches and Christian families, many people cease to express genuine love and forgiveness. But the church that yields to the Holy Spirit, whom the Lord has abundantly supplied to His people, can produce the spiritual fruit of love (cf. Gal. 5:22-23).

The Promise of Church Growth

Scripture consistently connects generosity with an increase in the church’s spiritual vitality and outreach effectiveness. 2 Corinthians 9:6-8 directly links generous giving to both spiritual abundance and fruitfulness in ministry. “But this I say, He which soweth sparingly shall reap also sparingly; and he which soweth bountifully shall reap also bountifully. Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work”. Those who give cheerfully are promised sufficiency and grace to abound in good works, including outreach and service.

A giving church attracts, not by marketing or manipulation, but by the compelling testimony of God’s love in action. Acts 2 presents this model: “And they continued stedfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship… And all that believed were together… And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved” (Acts 2:42, 44, 47). Notice the connection: They gave. They fellowshipped. They taught. And the Lord added. Gospel growth is God’s work, but He uses the faithful generosity of His people as His instrument.

Hindrances to Giving and Growth

When a church fails to give, her growth is severely curtailed. The Laodicean church in Revelation claimed to be rich, but Christ rebuked them: “Because thou sayest, I am rich… and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor…” (Revelation 3:17). They had ceased to give from the heart. Their spiritual stagnation came from misplaced trust in material wealth. A stingy spirit leads to spiritual starvation.

Hoarding, fear, distrust and selfishness will choke the life out of a church. But the spiritual increase promised will be enjoyed when biblical giving is maintained – freely, cheerfully, and faithfully.

Conclusion

The church of Jesus Christ is called to be a giving body because she represents the giving Saviour. The more she pours out in love, generosity, time and service, the more she will be blessed by God with spiritual vitality and numerical increase that God promised.

(Excerpts from Pastor’s sermon during the Graduation Service of GBI, Vizag, on 26th April 2025, based on 2 Timothy 2:19–26)

Introduction

The Holy Spirit often used vivid images in Scripture to reveal spiritual truths. In 2 Timothy 2:19-21, Paul describes the church as a “great house” filled with vessels of gold, silver, wood, and clay. These vessels represent believers – some useful and honourable, others not. Through this imagery, Paul calls us to purify ourselves, that we might become vessels fit for the Master’s service.

1. Church, A Great House with a Divine Foundation that is Unshakable (v. 19)

“Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity” (v. 19).

In the previous verses (vv. 16–18), Paul warned Timothy about false teachers whose heresies were capable of overthrowing the faith of some within the church. Yet, despite the spread of error and ungodliness, Paul declares with confidence, “Nevertheless, the foundation of God standeth sure...” Amidst the chaos, the true church rests on an unchanging foundation laid by God Himself.

In his first letter to Timothy, Paul had already affirmed that “the house of God, which is the church of the living God”, is “the pillar and ground of the truth” (1 Timothy 3:15). The church stands immovably upon the truths God has revealed in His Word. No matter how fiercely falsehood rages, God secures His people upon the solid ground of His truth. It is no surprise, then, that the church is pictured here as “a great house” (v. 20a).

Paul further emphasises this security by noting that the foundation of God has a seal — a mark of ownership and divine purpose: “The Lord knoweth them that are his.” Like a stone engraving on a grand building, God’s mark assures us that He knows and loves each true believer, and none will ever be lost. As Jesus prayed to the Father: “Of them which thou gavest me have I lost none” (John 18:9; cf. 17:12).

The seal also declares God’s purpose for His people: “Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.” God’s ownership is never passive; it leads to active sanctification. True believers will not abandon God to embrace sin—rather, they will continually depart from sin, as visible proof that they belong to Him.

2. Church, A Great House with Honourable and Dishonourable Vessels (v. 20)

“But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour” (v. 20).

Paul continues his household imagery of the church, describing it as a “great house” filled with different kinds of vessels. Some are crafted from precious metals like gold and silver; others are made from common materials like wood and clay. In any grand home, vessels of honour are displayed proudly, while vessels of dishonour — used for refuse or waste — are hidden away.

In the same way, within God’s great house, the church, there are faithful servants who bring honour to His name, and others who bring shame through unfaithfulness, laziness, cowardice, or discontent. We are called not merely to be part of the house, but to be vessels of honour — clean, useful, and ready for the Master’s service.

No institution on earth is greater in God’s sight than His church. Serving Him within it is both a high privilege and a sacred duty. To be a vessel of honour in the great house of God is not something to be taken lightly. It is a calling that demands our best, and rewards us with eternal significance.

3. Be Honourable Vessels Fit for the Master of the Great House (vv. 21-26)

Paul exhorts, “If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master’s use, and prepared unto every good work” (v. 21). Every believer, especially those called to leadership (like Timothy), must cleanse himself from false doctrines and ungodly practices warned of earlier (vv. 16–18). Only by separating from sin and error can one become a vessel of honour, set apart and ready for the Master’s use.

The Lord uses only clean vessels. Talent, intelligence, or capability alone do not make one useful to God. The Lord requires purity of life. If we flee from sin and live for Him, we will become instruments that bring Him glory. Are you purging your life of sinful attitudes, worldly habits, and ungodly influences? If so, God will prepare you for every good work He has ordained for you to fulfil (cf. Ephesians 2:10).

Paul then gives three crucial instructions to maintain ourselves as honourable vessels:

Flee youthful lusts: “Flee also youthful lusts” (v. 22a). Youthful lusts include more than sexual sins; they also include pride, impatience, quarrelsomeness, ambition, and all kinds of selfish desires. God’s servant must actively flee these things.

Follow righteousness, faith, love and peace: “Follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart” (v. 22b). It’s not enough to flee from sin. We must also pursue godly virtues, alongside others who “call on the Lord out of a pure heart”. Running from sin must be matched by running towards righteousness with all the people of God.

Avoid foolish arguments and cultivate gentleness: “But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; and that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will” (vv. 23-26).

The servant of the Lord must not be argumentative and quarrelsome, but be “gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves”. Our goal is not to win debates, but to restore souls. With patience and prayer, we labour, trusting that God may grant repentance and rescue those ensnared by the devil. In your teaching and interactions, ask yourself: “Am I striving to win arguments, or working to restore hearts?” “Is my conduct and message drawing others towards Christ, or pushing them further away?”

To be a vessel of honour in God’s great house, we must flee from what corrupts, pursue what is godly, and serve others with gentleness. Then only can we reflect Christ, to the glory of God.

In Thanksgiving for the 37th Anniversary of GBPC

Reggor B. Galarpe, Pastor of Gethsemane B-P Church, Cebu City, the Philippines

Dear Pastor, Board of Elders, Deacons, and our beloved brethren at Gethsemane B-P Church (Singapore),

On behalf of the brethren here in Gethsemane BPC, Cebu, please receive our warm greetings on the occasion of your 37th Anniversary!

Every church anniversary is a milestone. It is one special occasion where everyone can rejoice for all the Lord has done in and through the church. And no doubt, the Lord has done great and marvellous things for the work of the Gospel that stretches forth from you in Singapore to the regions beyond, through the various missions enterprises, and even through the Bible Witness Media Ministry – publications, web radio and television.

On the home front, by the grace and mercies of God, the church has flourished in almost every aspect of the ministry, especially in the faithful preaching and teaching of the Word, causing the Church to be firmly established in the faith. Praise the Lord for the life and labours of Pastor Koshy, and the team of committed preachers among you. Likewise for the Board of Elders, Deacons and all the full-time workers, who serve alongside with zeal and fervour. Thank you also, our beloved brethren, for your love for God and His people, as expressed in your service, prayers, and support.

On this joyous occasion, I would like to exhort you with these words from the apostle Paul: “For though I be absent in the flesh, yet am I with you in the spirit, joying and beholding your order, and the stedfastness of your faith in Christ. As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him: rooted and built up in him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving” (Colossians 2:5-7). 

May the Lord richly bless you and continue to prosper your labours, and enable you to do even greater things for His glory.

Donald dela Cruz, Pastor of Gethsemane B-P Church, Pangasinan, the Philippines

Greetings to Pastor, the BOE and the church on your 37th Anniversary! The Lord has entrusted Gethsemane BPC, Singapore, with many fruitful ministries. Praise the Lord for your willingness to carry the load of the mission churches according to the strength which the Lord has bestowed on you. In spite of your own burdens in Singapore, the church is always thinking of the welfare of the mission stations. Your untiring love and faithful service have encouraged us in GBPC, Pangasinan, to press on to declare the Gospel work in new frontiers. 

We are very thankful for your financial support and prayer support for GBPC, Pangasinan. We can focus on preaching the Gospel because of your great help. My family and I can move around to places to preach the Word and, at the same time, be charitable to needy brethren, because of your cheerful giving. Sometimes, we experience bodily tiredness, but your prayers and examples of untiring labour in the ministry help us press on to serve. May the Lord always provide holiness, strength, wisdom and compassion to Gethsemane BPC, Singapore. 

The people from the neighbourhood have consistently joined the worship service for over a month. They bring along their children and other relatives as well. We are planning to conduct a 2-day DVBS in May with the children coming mainly from this area. This ministry is more sustainable because of the parents who are also joining the worship service. May the Lord grant us the opportunity to extend the Gospel work to other neighbours.

The Lord is also pleased to open another “Home Visitation and Bible Study” group in Calasiao, Pangasinan. The participants are the new group of people coming from the area. We plan to meet in one house, and another four brethren will join. Our home visits are currently at Binday, Pozorrubio, Binalonan, Asingan, and Lobong. We are visiting them twice a month. 

Praise the Lord for the provision and help for us to attend the Combined Church Camp in Cebu, from April 30-May 2, 2025. 19 brethren from here will join the camp. Praise the Lord for the love gift from GBPC, Singapore, which will enable us to give all participants a 50% discount on camp fees. Praise the Lord that we can provide transportation allowance to our carpooling drivers through the gift as well.

Pr Jeremiah Sim

Gethsemane B-P Church’s 37th Anniversary Thanksgiving is a special moment for God’s people to commemorate, reflect, and give thanks (1 Samuel 12:24). This milestone is a heartfelt moment for me to recognise the way God has led, guided and used me to serve Him in this church, and to recollect God’s goodness and faithfulness in my life these many years. The Lord has taught me many spiritual and wonderful lessons through the fellowship of the saints and inspirational sermons by the preachers. Beside these, I thank God for the privilege to serve, worship, and be in prayer in the Lord’s house, week after week.  My joy is echoed by the psalmist in Psalm 100:1-5, “Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all ye lands. Serve the LORD with gladness: come before his presence with singing. Know ye that the LORD he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name. For the LORD is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations.” 

My prayer is that our church will be like a strong tree planted by the river and always nurtured by our Lord Jesus Christ, the true Vine. May we the branches grow to be abundant with fruits and be prosperous in the continually widening work of God in Gethsemane. “Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven” (Matthew 5:14-16).

Judy Chan 

By God’s providence, I became a member of Gethsemane B-P Church seven years ago, and since then, I have been continuously sanctified by the faithful preaching of God’s Word in the church. Initially, coming to church was painful because I often felt ‘broken’ after hearing the sermons as my sins were exposed. But God was merciful not to let me go my own wilful way, and I was reminded by the preaching that “whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth” (Hebrews 12:6). As time went by, God was even pleased to use me to serve in the church! Praise the Lord for preserving the purity of His Word in the church! 

I am also grateful to the Lord for the godly counsel I’ve received from spiritually mature brothers and sisters in the church. They care for my soul, and the Lord used their counsel to help me to overcome my stubbornness and obey God’s will. The Lord will surely reward their labour! May the Lord also raise up more godly young men to be future leaders of the church, and help them to respond to His calling courageously!

Elder Mah Chin Kwang

God’s Word in Deut 32:7 declares, “Remember the days of old, consider the years of many generations: ask thy father, and he will shew thee; thy elders, and they will tell thee.” God’s call to remember, consider, and ask of the old days was for a blessed, spiritual purpose. It is that God’s people down the ages, through the recollections of their fathers and leaders, may explain to and direct the younger generation to the Lord God Almighty as they recount God’s wondrous works. This we must do on this blessed occasion, and for always.

The blessedness of being involved in the conception, birth and growth of our church spanning four decades enables me to witness the constant gracious and mighty Hand of the Lord over our church. There are certainly many items for thanksgiving. I shall testify of one - the Lord’s answering a prayer of old. 

The prayer I made regularly was: “that our church would always stand squarely on the Word of God.” It was a personal but necessary prayer, as many controversies surround contemporary Christendom. I am convinced that the church that does not stand firmly on the Bible would, over time, drift away from the Lord. By His divine grace and providence, the Lord answered that prayer. He brought our Pastor in December 1990, who has served to this day. Notwithstanding the great need that our church faced, amidst much pains and tears, the Lord kept this church faithful to His Word, through the labours of His servant. Certainly, it is through the enabling grace of the Lord upon our Pastor that our church continues to take that stand. May we all rejoice, give thanks, and pray that the Lord will always give us such like-minded pastors and leaders. 

We rejoice in the Lord that our church is engaged in many ministries here in Singapore, in several other countries and beyond, as well as through the internet. However, more than this, it is the Lord’s faithfulness in blessing our small group by providing, sustaining and directing us that we ought to praise and thank Him for. All glory be unto His majestic Name!

Elder Lim Ah Sang

All praise be unto God for His goodness towards Gethsemane BP Church in all these 37 years! The fearless, strong, faithful and consistent preaching and teaching in this church against sin and worldliness must be treasured as the working grace of God. In addition, the timely providence of God for the many works He has entrusted to Gethsemane, as well as the weekly, well-attended prayer meeting (which at times involving fasting), is spiritual evidence of God’s presence in this God-honouring church. God be praised for working through us. May God keep us humble and continue to work in and through us for His glory.

In the last days, perilous times shall come, and they are here now. Are we not seeing some of the signs that indicate the imminence of the second coming of the Lord Jesus Christ (cf. Matt 24)? What is our response to Jesus’ question in Luke 18:8b, “when the Son of man cometh, shall he find faith on the earth?” May Gethsemaneans take to heart this question of the Lord. May none of us be found among those who fall away, or those whom Jesus will profess in the day of judgment: “I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity” (Matt 7:23).

May God be gracious and merciful, keeping us true and faithful to Him. Let us persevere in His works with much love and prayer for one another, and with a pure heart, as we serve our Great God and King. To God be the glory.

Elder Low Boon Siang

“O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever” (Psalm 136:1).

I thank God for Gethsemane BP Church, a Bible-believing church firmly grounded in sound doctrine. Since my conversion at 18, I have spent the past 23 years as a Christian here, experiencing His marvellous grace and goodness. Throughout these years, God has faithfully guided and preserved me through various seasons of life, including my time as a student, in the army, as a working adult, in marriage, in parenting, and as a church elder. Though there were many struggles and temptations, God has always been my refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

Secondly, I thank God for the faithful preaching in this church. Through our Pastor’s exhortation of the Word, I was often rebuked, corrected, and instructed in the way of the Lord. Although at times painful, these teachings were necessary for my spiritual growth, guiding me along the path of righteousness. I also thank God for the many godly examples in the church—young and old, single and married, parents and grandparents—who have demonstrated how Christians can live abundant lives in Christ. Their testimonies encourage me to walk faithfully and strive to be a godly example to the generations to come.

To all in Gethsemane BP Church, especially the youths and young adults, I urge you to cherish the Word of God, for it is your most trusted guide in life. Be consistently fed by God’s Word so that your ways align with His will, and you may live a God-honouring life that blesses others. As J.C. Ryle wisely said, “Happy is that man who possesses a Bible! Happier still is he who reads it! Happiest of all is he who not only reads it, but obeys it, and makes it the rule of his faith and practice!”

As we commemorate 37 years of God’s faithfulness, may we press on in faith, trusting in His grace and serving Him with gladness. “Ye shall walk after the LORD your God, and fear him, and keep his commandments, and obey his voice, and ye shall serve him, and cleave unto him” (Deut 13:4).

Elder Ng Poh Kok

“The LORD hath done great things for us; whereof we are glad” (Psalm 126:3).

Looking back fifteen years ago, the Lord drew my family to Himself, deepening our spiritual life to realise the hope and experience the favour He granted us. His divine providence has seen us through many trials and wonderful lessons in life. When we joined GBPC, we were warmly received into the fellowship of God’s people, and with that experience, we wanted others to feel the same too. Sometimes, I feel overwhelmed, but God is able to help, and God is able to do more than we can think and do.

I thank the Lord for raising up a banner of truth, GBPC, in a time like this, to champion the cause of Christ and to make Him known in many countries. As we celebrate the 37th Anniversary of GBPC, may the love of God continue to transform the lives of many and make us channels of blessing to others. Let me bring to your remembrance a quotation from missionary C.T. Studd: “Only one life to live ‘twill soon be past, Only what’s done for Christ will last.” 

Elder Francis Lee

“Bless the LORD, O my soul: and all that is within me, bless his holy name. Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits” (Ps 103:1-2). 

On this 37th Anniversary of Gethsemane B-P Church, I thank God for His bountiful blessings upon the church, which has grown from a small band of eight people (when our Pastor came here to serve in early 1991) to the present-day congregation of almost 400 members and regular worshippers. By the Lord’s grace, we have increased in numbers to be used by Him to bring the Gospel message near and far, from Singapore to many overseas countries. I also thank God for giving us faithful ministers of His Word – our Pastor and our faithful preachers – who have laboured tirelessly to teach us the Word of God. Praise God that our church has proclaimed and defended God’s Word faithfully for the past 37 years, as the pillar and ground of God’s Truth (1 Tim 3:15b). 

May we, in thankfulness for God’s blessings upon our church, respond by dedicating ourselves to do His will and abound in the work of the Lord. “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God” (Rom 12:1-2). Let us not be moulded by the world but be spiritually transformed, exercising our spiritual gifts (Rom 12:6-8) to serve the Lord with humility (Rom 12:3), with unity (Rom 12:4-5), with genuine love in truth (Rom 12:9-10), with diligence (Rom 12:11), and with hope, patience and prayer (Rom 12:12).

Pastor Prabhudas Koshy

Looking back, I marvel at the divine Hand that has been at work in my life and ministry, orchestrating events in ways I could never have foreseen. My heart is overwhelmed with gratitude to our faithful and merciful God.

I did not know that God, through the efforts of Elder Mah Chin Kwang and other brethren, had begun a small congregation that would later become my place of pastoral ministry. Yet, in His perfect timing, as soon as I completed my first four-year course in theological studies, the Lord led me to this very church—Gethsemane BPC—where He had prepared a field for me to labour in His name.

Here, in the loving fold of this congregation, God continued to pour out His blessings. He granted me a wife who has stood by my side, persevering in faith and devotion, as we together served Christ in His church. Through the years, He has blessed us with three children, each now married and blessed with children of their own. And by His grace, we, as a family, have been given the privilege to serve the Lord full-time in various ministries, both locally and overseas.

Yet, beyond our immediate family, we rejoice in the greater family God has given us in GBPC. This church has been a place where we have received the warmth of His love and care, where we have been edified in the truths of His Word, and where we have co-laboured with dear brethren for the salvation of more souls and the furtherance of His glorious Gospel.

As we reflect on God’s goodness, let us be encouraged by His promise in Hebrews 6:10, “For God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labour of love, which ye have shewed toward his name, in that ye have ministered to the saints, and do minister.” Our labour in the Lord is never in vain, and He is ever faithful to remember the sacrifices made for His name’s sake. To God be all the glory, honour, and praise. Amen.

As announced over the past few Sundays, our church’s ACM 2023 will be held today at 4p.m. in SingPost L5 Auditorium. The ACM documents have been uploaded to our church website for all the church members’ perusal. I urge all church members to be present, as this meeting is to be held, according to our church constitution, at least once annually to consider our congregation’s affairs.

How to Prepare for the ACM:

Pray for reverential and orderly conduct by all participants of the ACM, for the Bible instructs us concerning all church meetings, “Let all things be done decently and in order” (1 Corinthians 14:40). 

Please plan and make necessary arrangements to attend the ACM, and come to the venue 15-20 minutes early to sign in to enter the auditorium. This would help towards the counting of participants and the determining of the quorum to proceed with the meeting.

Let us pray for the Pastor and Elders (office bearers of the church), that the Spirit of God would empower them to conduct the meeting with wisdom, and present all reports of the past year as well as plans for the upcoming year faithfully and skilfully. 

If church members have any questions on the reports or plans, please submit the questions early for the office bearers to provide studied answers. 

Though ACM is a business / administrative church meeting, we must be mindful to do all things according to the counsels of God’s Word with great reverence and thanksgiving to God, who has blessed the church spiritually and physically. Let us all gather together with boundless praise for the Lord. “He that glorieth, let him glory in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 1:31). May our thoughts be about His goodness. Let every heart rejoice and give thanks unto the Lord. “So then neither is he that planteth any thing, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase” (1 Corinthians 3:7). 

The church leaders and members must participate in the meeting with mutual love and respect. “Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man” (Colossians 4:6). We must avoid all belligerent, fault-finding, slanderous, provocative, and quarrelsome attitudes. 

Let us not forget the biblical admonition that we should be “endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace” (Ephesians 4:3). “A house divided cannot stand.”

Our recollection and evaluation of the past year’s ministries (local and overseas), as well as our awareness of the needs and burdens of the present and new ministries, must create within us a humble and ready spirit to serve the Lord faithfully and fervently in the coming year. May we renew our commitment, and consecrate ourselves to serve Him joyfully and enthusiastically.

May the Lord bless our gathering together. May we acknowledge and carry out our stewardship responsibilities faithfully, as we joyfully seek to serve our God out of hearts full of gratitude in thanksgiving for the indescribable gift given to us in His Son!

Biblical Guidelines for Orderly Worship

Paul has laid down much-needed principles for orderly worship services. Sadly, the Corinthian church had been conducting their worship services as they felt best - a kind of free, spontaneous worship service where anyone could sing a hymn, prophesy or speak in tongues. However, Paul sharply rebuked such a disorderly, chaotic conduct of worship and instructed the church with some guidelines. Paul insisted on orderliness and purpose in the church’s public gatherings, as attested to in 1 Corinthians 14:26-40.

Worship must not consist of free-for-all, spontaneous activities: The Corinthian church had not maintained order when they gathered for worship. Everyone did as he liked – hence, Paul asked, “How is it then, brethren? when ye come together, every one of you hath a psalm, hath a doctrine, hath a tongue, hath a revelation, hath an interpretation. Let all things be done unto edifying” (v. 26). Our conduct should not distract other worshippers from truly worshipping the Lord in spirit and truth.

Worship services must be edifying: Everything done during public worship must be intended to bring about the building up of the church. Promoting spiritual growth and maturity of the church must be the chief concern of all in the worship services. Nothing should be done with personal promotion or prominence in view but with others’ edification. “Let all things be done unto edifying” (v.26b).

Worship services should not be haphazardly put together: Even if several people have the same spiritual gifts in a local church, Paul did not permit them to exercise their gifts simultaneously. Paul urged that each service element should not be haphazardly thrown together with no order, but with meticulous deliberateness so there will be no confusion (vv. 29-33). We are reminded that “God is not the author of confusion but of peace.” Disorganised services can distract the worshippers from fully focusing on God. Those who plan the worship services must deliberate on what they include and how they order them.

Worship services should be led by those in the church leadership: Women in the church are advised to submit to men of leadership and not to speak in public worship (vv. 34-38). The principle of prohibiting women from questioning their leadership applies to all the leadership realms of the church, especially regarding the worship service. Neither men nor women in the worship should challenge or disrupt the church leaders who lead the worship service. Public worship services and other church activities must be planned and led by church leaders, and all worshippers and members should respect and submit to their authority regarding the worship service.

Worship services should be Word-focused: In vv. 36-38, Paul emphasised the declaration of God’s revelation. Today, the divine revelation received through prophecy is complete and is given to us in the Bible (cf. 1 Cor. 13:9-10; Rev. 22:18-19). So, the declaration and practice of the Word in the church worship service are paramount to God-honouring worship service.

We commemorate the 21st Anniversary of our Chinese Service today. A combined Thanksgiving Service is held together with the 8:30am English Service for the praise of Jesus Christ, the Saviour and Shepherd of the church. 

What a joy it is to witness three elderly folks joining our church today, through the ministry of Gethsemane Chinese Service! They have come to know the Lord and find fellowship in the Chinese Service and the Seniors’ Ministry. 

Mdm Mak Yock Theng (82 yrs), to be baptised today, has been coming to our church and ministries with her husband, Mr Ng Weng San (member of our Chinese Service), for several years. They are the parents of Bro. David Ng (TGCM staff), who has been praying for their salvation and encouraging them to turn to Christ in faith. Likewise, Mr Tay Nga Nga (72 yrs) was brought to our church by his daughter (a non-Gethsemanean) who joins our church services occasionally. He has been regularly worshipping in the Chinese Service in recent years. Mr Yap Yam Hua (88 yrs), a Christian living alone, was introduced to us by his nephew. Having attended our church services for a few years, he has decided to transfer his membership to our church. 

Let us continue to pray for the Chinese Service and the labour of Pr Daniel Lim in preaching the Word for the spiritual nurture of all who attend this church ministry. We also pray for Elder Alan Choy, Dn Gan Chin Hwi and others who serve along with Pr Daniel. May the Lord purify and preserve all the brethren for His coming and for His eternal kingdom.

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Testimonies of Candidates of Transfer of Membership

Ho Xiu Ling

I’m a first-generation Christian. The Gospel seed had been sown in my heart since childhood when I attended a Methodist primary school. I heard the Gospel through the school’s chapel services and Christian fellowship in school. 

I started to attend church together with my siblings when my sister’s church friends reached out to us after my mother passed away when I was at the age of 12. Not too long after that, I accepted Christ in my life.

God has always been wonderful in my life. He is my comfort, strength and provider. I received baptism by faith when I was 15 years old. The Word of God has helped me to stay faithful and not stray away from it into worldly things.

Since I met my fiancé James 2 years ago, I started to attend the same church as him at Gethsemane Bible-Presbyterian Church. I have grown more in faith over this period of time. Thank God for all the blessings in my life. To God be the glory!

James Voon

Though I was born into a non-Christian family, my parents decided to enrol me in mission schools since kindergarten. This was because of my quiet and reserved nature. My parents were hopeful that this would help me to open up to others. Thus, from kindergarten all the way to my secondary school, I was exposed to the Gospel. It was during one of the Bible study sessions in my primary school, that I was convicted of my sins, and I accepted Christ as my Saviour.

That was some 30 years ago. Through many years of ups and downs in my spiritual life, the Lord remains compassionate and faithful to me. I am now a regular worshipper at Gethsemane B-P Church, having started worshipping there almost 9 years ago. Because of the sound preaching at Gethsemane and the fellowship I received, I have decided to become a member of Gethsemane B-P Church.

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Ministry Updates from Cebu, the Philippines 

Pastor Reggor Galarpe (Gethsemane B-P Church, Cebu) has reported about the church and its related ministries. Here’s an excerpt from Pastor Reggor’s email. 

“We thank you and the Board of Elders for the half-month financial support received. It’s a big help for our families, which is especially timely since it’s school opening also for our children. Praise God! ... Praise God that GBI-Cebu’s new semester has begun on 7th August 2023, with the Day of Prayer and Registration. Thank God for the enrolment of 18 students – with 4 of them studying full time, namely Johnny Rey Ebin, Dave Taburada, Synoname Estacion and our dear brother, Julius del Rosario… Regarding our search for a prospective church building, we have scheduled a meeting and ocular survey (11th August) of a property introduced to us. It is situated some 19 km away from Cebu City… We will keep you posted on this. Please pray for God’s help and guidance… Lastly, our greetings to TGCM and the Gethsemane Chinese Service on their respective anniversaries!”

Hostility, quarrel, acrimony, threats, slander, and hurtful actions have wrecked many a church; and such stories have saddened us deeply. If we do not guard ourselves against sin and self-promoting ways, our congregation will be wrecked with dissension. Today, I would like to share with you, Scripture’s counsel on guarding ourselves against disunity and division. Let us also take heed to pray that “there be no divisions among [us]; but that [we] be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment” (1 Cor. 1:10). 

Disharmony and disunity have existed in the church since New Testament times. The church in Corinth, for one, was most disreputable for its quarrels. 

Why Do People Quarrel?

“From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?” (James 4:1). Quarrels have long been part of human society. The source of all fightings is man’s sinful heart. Man’s depraved, egoistic nature is the root of all discord and dispute. “For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies” (Matthew 15:19). Man is predisposed to his personal desires and whims. Unless believers “put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication” (Colossians 3:8), they would also be tempted to live for self-interest and self-glory, resulting in bitterness and acrimonious conduct. When two or more people are determined to pursue their own personal agendas, they will soon begin to fight.

Church and Quarrels

Sadly, uncharitable contentions do occur in the church. Paul wrote to the Corinthian church: “For first of all, when ye come together in the church, I hear that there be divisions among you; and I partly believe it” (1 Corinthians 11:18; cf. 1:11) – the reason being that “ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men?” (1 Corinthians 3:3). Here, Paul is not saying that believers were in a totally carnal state, but that the Corinthians had been behaving in a carnal or fleshly manner. When believers do not walk in the Spirit, they succumb to the impulses of the flesh. This is why believers are reminded: “Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would” (Galatians 5:16-17).

It is totally out of character for Christians to engage in quarrels and divisions within the church. It undermines the church’s testimony and effectiveness in the world. It gives an occasion for the devil and the world to scorn the church. It grieves the Lord; it discourages and demoralises His people. In Galatians 5:15, Christians are admonished: “But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another.” Quarrels fracture fellowship, rob Christians of their joy, weaken their effectiveness and dishonour the Lord. What a high price to pay for an ego trip!

Church and Unity

God has forbidden quarrels in the church. Instead, He encourages unity within the church. In 1 Corinthians 1:10, Paul admonished the feuding Corinthians: “Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.”

The first need of the Corinthian church was harmony among its people. It is also the need of many churches today. Note that this unity comes with proper judgment, being of “the same mind and … the same judgment”. Anything less is not true spiritual unity. Hypocritical unity that tolerates doctrinal errors and unholy living is not what is taught here. We are not simply to be in unity indiscriminately and avoid all conflicts, though people pursue ungodly doctrines and unscriptural living.

When congregants differ in doctrine or strongly disagree with the church leadership and policies, they cannot contribute to the spiritual unity of the church nor serve effectively. Of course, believers are not “carbon copies” of each other. They differ in disposition, temperament, skill and giftedness, but they should be of the same mind in Christian doctrine and living.

If any kind of difference or dispute occurs, it must be resolved according to the Scriptures. Church leaders, who are men of knowledge and spiritual maturity, must make it a point to prayerfully attend to those issues, and advise the church what “seemed good to the Holy Ghost, and to [them]” (Acts 15:28). No arbitrary ruling should be made, but the Board of Elders must make their decision unanimously, and in accordance with God’s Word under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Their godly counsel must then be humbly sought and obeyed, for Scripture commands believers to “Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you” (Hebrews 13:17). Faithful believers then must be in complete harmony with their leaders to obey God’s will. When elders are one in the Spirit, the congregation should submit to the directions given to them by the elders.

Such unity would require much effort and prayer. But it is God’s way for His church to enjoy the sweet blessings of unity, as Paul said to the Philippians, “Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind” (Philippians 2:2). Let us remember the psalmist’s praise of brotherly unity – “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!” (Psalm 133:1).

Dear Gethsemaneans, let us always endeavour to keep the unity of the Spirit (Ephesians 4:1-6), and make Paul’s prayer for the Roman church ours: “Now the God of patience and consolation grant you to be likeminded one toward another according to Christ Jesus: that ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Wherefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God” (Romans 15:5-7).

Church “Without Murmurings and Disputings”

Philippians 2:14 exhorts, “Do all things without murmurings and disputings”. We are dissuaded from engaging in two evils, namely murmuring and disputing. Interestingly, the apostle is concerned that some may engage in spiritual activities with murmuring and disputing. In other words, they practise religion without sincerity and joy. When God-given duties are done with murmuring and a disgruntled spirit, such service will be unacceptable. So, all Christians must guard themselves against such evil conduct. Both of those sins must be abhorred and avoided if our services are to be effective and helpful.

Some murmur against God and His servants, like the Israelites in the wilderness when experiencing a time of scarcity. In Numbers 11, we read about them: “And the mixt multitude that was among them fell a lusting: and the children of Israel also wept again, and said, Who shall give us flesh to eat? We remember the fish, which we did eat in Egypt freely; the cucumbers, and the melons, and the leeks, and the onions, and the garlick: but now our soul is dried away: there is nothing at all, beside this manna, before our eyes” (vv. 4-6; cf. Exodus 15:24; 16:7-9).

Others murmur because they are discontented with and envious of the godly men and women whom God uses (cf. Numbers 14:1-4; 16:41; Mark 14:5). There are also some others who murmur because of their unbelief and their bigoted desire to spread their sedition (cf. Luke 15:2; Jude 16).

The spirit of murmuring is perilous. The Word of God cautions us, “Neither murmur ye, as some of them also murmured, and were destroyed of the destroyer” (1 Corinthians 10:10). Murmuring is often the result of envy, discontentment, bitterness, pride and unbelief. It results in many evil deeds, such as gossip, backbiting, slander, usurping of authority, defiance, sedition, dissension and schism. Murmuring is not just a dispute with man, but also with God! So, serve the Lord without any murmur or dispute.