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READ:

Colossians 3:20

²⁰ Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.

EXHORTATION:

God commands us to have proper conduct towards our dear ones in the family. God is insistent on how His children would regard and relate to one another in the home. All our family relationships are to be managed and nurtured according to the divine guidelines given in His Word. If we truly fear God and maintain a life of piety, then it ought to be seen in our conduct at home, in our relationships to our parents, our children, our spouses, our siblings and our other relatives.

Christian children are commanded to obey their parents. This command to obey requires that children show respect to their fathers and mothers. Holy Scripture repeatedly enjoins children to “Honour thy father and thy mother” (Exodus 20:12; Matthew 15:4; Ephesians 6:2). Children owe their parents an inward affection and regard. They must cultivate a courteous, respectful attitude towards their parents, and honour their parents with tokens of respect.

Even when children have grown up and their parents become aged, love and respect towards parents should continue. Proverbs 23:22 admonishes us, “Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.” Likewise, Proverbs 19:26 cautions, “He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.” Let no Christian ever be disrespectful to their aged and needy parents. When parents grow weak and frail, when they become helpless, or somewhat burdensome, we must shower them with tenderness, love and respect. Let us recall all their efforts and good advice they have rendered to bring us up, and show our thankfulness through our deeds of kindness and respect. Some parents might have failed in their parental duties; yet, Christians are duty-bound to show respect and care towards them at all times.

Younger children and youths are to obey their parents “in all things”. Their attitude of obedience must be shown in all aspects of life. Only when the parents’ instructions are contrary to God’s Word are children allowed to disagree with their parents. Ephesians 6:1 says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.” Obeying parents in the Lord is the right thing to do and is well pleasing unto the Lord.

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Colossians 3:19

¹⁹ Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

EXHORTATION:

Concerning the domestic affairs of Christians, God has stipulated differing but complementing duties to husbands and wives. While the wife was commanded to be submissive to her own husband, the husband is commanded to be the loving head of her and the family. In order that the family may function with peace and harmony, and for all of God’s special will and purposes concerning the family to be carried out, both husband and wife must fulfil their roles with great commitment.

Husbands are here commanded specifically to love their wives. The husband must be genuinely delighted with his wife’s presence and company, not seeking other women in sinful pleasure. He is enjoined in Proverbs 5:18-19, “Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.” In contrast, a warning is issued to those who would secretly cherish the company and pleasure of other women: “And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger? For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings. His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins. He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray” (Proverbs 5:20-23).

To the positive command to love, Paul added a negative one: “be not bitter against them.” This second advice suggests that offences and conflicts will occur in one’s marriage relationship. If the husband does not commit himself to love his wife passionately, bitterness will grow rapidly against her. Every Christian husband must see that he gives no room for bitterness to grow, or else harsh and severe dealings will result.

As a wife is bound to be submissive to her husband in spite of his many imperfections, so the husband is bound to love his wife, notwithstanding her shortcomings. A tender-hearted leadership will result in the resolving of many a conflict, while a bitter-spirited approach will provoke greater conflicts and hurts. Husbands are not to be tyrants, but tender-hearted lovers who lead their wives with God’s wisdom to be co-heirs of all of God’s blessings. “Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity” (Ecclesiastes 9:9a).

Sermon Text: Psalm 109:1–31
Speaker: Pastor Prabhudas Koshy
Date: 25th May 2025

Christians should not expect the unbelieving world to be always friendly towards them. It will never be possible for them to avoid the hatred of the world. Jesus had categorically said to His disciples that the world would hate them – “If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you. Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also” (John 15:18-20). When Jesus prayed for the believers, He said, “I have given them thy word; and the world hath hated them, because they are not of the world, even as I am not of the world” (John 17:14).

The adverse reaction from the unbelieving people is described by the word “hate”. The original Greek word for “hate”, miséō, implies an expression of hostility or ill will either in word or in conduct. The world’s hatred towards Christians will manifest both in verbal and physical assaults; unbelievers may unleash their unhappiness and fury against Christians any time. The apostle Paul tells us in 2 Timothy 3:12, “Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution.”

John the apostle also reminds Christians about the world’s hatred in 1 John 3:13: “Marvel not, my brethren, if the world hate you.” From time to time, the unregenerate people will express their dislike and intolerance of the Christian faith and practice. Their antagonistic behaviour should not surprise Christians at all. Christians should always anticipate and be prepared to face strong opposition and severe troubles from the unbelieving world.

Jesus said that hatred against Christians can come even from their closest of family members who are not yet saved. “And the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death. And ye shall be hated of all men for my name’s sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved” (Matthew 10:21-22). So the message is clear that Christians must always be prepared for harsh realities of hatred towards them, even from close quarters.

Jesus also said, “Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves. But beware of men: for they will deliver you up to the councils, and they will scourge you in their synagogues; and ye shall be brought before governors and kings for my sake, for a testimony against them and the Gentiles” (Matthew 10:16–18). Even as the Lord cautioned Christians to be careful to do nothing malicious to provoke the hatred of the world, He also told them to be prepared for unsympathetic and aggressive actions from the world.

Reasons for the World’s Hatred

What reasons did Jesus give for the hatred of the world? Why does the world hate genuine and godly Christians, especially when they are only concerned about the salvation and well-being of the souls of men?

The first reason that Jesus gave in our text was that the world hated Him whom we follow. He said in John 15:18, “If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.” The reason why the world turns against Christians is that it hates their Lord and King, Jesus Christ. So whoever that lives to serve Him will also be treated cruelly by the world.

This reason for the world’s resentment is restated by the Lord Jesus in John 15:20 that we may not forget it – “Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also.” Herein is a confirmation of what Christ had spoken about being hated by the world. It is only reasonable to expect the world’s hatred for Christians when we are mindful that it hates their master, Christ, who is far more excellent than them. Just as they have been vicious in their attack of Christ, they will also act viciously against Christians. Just as they maliciously used Christ’s words against Him, they will also maliciously use the words of Christians against them.

The prince of the world, Satan, is the archenemy of Christ. Jesus said, “…the prince of this world cometh, and hath nothing in me” (John 14:30). The satanic hostility towards Christ dominates the whole world, and that undergirds the world’s animosity towards Christians. Matthew Henry said, “If we should put it to the vote between Christ and Satan, Satan would out-poll us quite.”

The second reason that Jesus gave in our text was that Christians do not belong to the world. Jesus said, “If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you” (John 15:19). While Christians are in the world physically, they are not of the world spiritually because Christ has chosen them for Himself. They are not in the world to live for the world but for Christ. As far as their desires, choices and actions are concerned, they are led by Christ and/for His glory.

Genuine Christians appear dead to worldly passions and goals as Paul said in Galatians 6:14, “But God forbid that I should glory, save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world is crucified unto me, and I unto the world.” Such an impassionate attitude towards the world makes Christians intolerable to the world. Moreover, the words and actions of Christians will be a rebuke to the world that lies in sin. They are exhorted to “have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them” (Ephesians 5:11). Hence, the rest of the world finds Christians at odds with them, giving rise to their bitterness, dislike and hatred.

The third reason that Jesus gave in our text was that the world is ignorant of God, the Father. Jesus said in John 15:21, “But all these things will they do unto you for my name’s sake, because they know not him that sent me.” Later in verse 23, He said, “He that hateth me hateth my Father also.”

As Jesus reminded the disciples that the fury of the world would rage against them, He also mentioned that it is because they do not know His Father who sent Him to call and save them for Himself. Just as the world’s hatred towards Christians is shown in its hatred towards Christ, it also proves its hatred for God who loves them through Christ. This is wilful ignorance; it is a conscious rejection of the truth of God in Christ, which is embraced by Christians. Such deliberate ignorance of God provokes the world to make war with Christ, His Father and His people.

When the world rejects the authenticity and authority of the Gospel of Christ, its disregard for God who authored and designed it becomes very apparent. Rejection of Christ is rejection of God. Hatred for Christ is hatred for God and this explains the world’s hatred for those whom God and Christ love. The world that hates God will hate His darlings who live in the world.

READ:

Colossians 3:18

¹⁸ Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

EXHORTATION:

Nowhere else can we find the best counsels for family life other than in God’s Word. God, Creator of man and woman, has provided His perfect wisdom for His people to enjoy peace and happiness in their domestic life. Through the apostle Paul, the Lord has provided specific advice for Christians on how each family member ought to carry out his / her role in the home.

The God-given role of a Christian wife is mentioned first. The wife, who conscientiously carries out her responsibilities in her home, will be a woman of honour and praise in the eyes of her husband and children, as well as before all who are acquainted with her family. To her own daughters and many younger women in the church, she will be a pattern to emulate. Proverbs 31:28-29 declares in no uncertain terms, “Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.”

The Christian wife’s duty is to be submissive to her own husband. The word “submit” denotes “to subject or be subordinate”. Her submissive conduct is demanded by the Lord because He has appointed the husband to be the “head” or the leader of the household. This divine command to the wives is repeated several times in the New Testament (see Ephesians 5:22; Titus 2:5; 1 Peter 3:1). This divine call to conduct themselves submissively is unambiguous, which should not be taken lightly. In Ephesians 5:24, Christian wives are exhorted thus: “Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.”

The submission of Christian wives to their husbands must be voluntary, for it is said, “Wives, submit yourselves”. When their hearts are engaged, submission to their own husbands will be a pleasure and honour. When wives joyfully submit to their husbands, they shall enjoy the satisfaction and joy that God has purposed for them in their home life.

As far as human relationship is concerned, a Christian woman’s first duty is to her husband, for wives are told to submit “unto your own husbands”. She is created and assigned by God to be her husband’s “help meet” (Genesis 2:18). Unfortunately, many Christian women respect and submit to their bosses more than their husbands, busily serving others’ businesses instead of their own homes. What is most fitting in the Lord is that every Christian wife submit joyfully and willingly to her husband.

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Colossians 3:17

¹⁷ And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.

EXHORTATION:

This is an immensely concise divine precept that applies to every word and action of a Christian. It is a succinct, yet comprehensive rule for a victorious Christian life. In any circumstance of life, it will serve as a golden rule for a God-honouring life. All of life’s scope is addressed with the words “whatever you do” and “in word or deed.”

Though the principle specifically mentions every word and deed, it also concerns our thought and motive. It presents to us the purest motive for every word and action – “do all in the name of the Lord Jesus”. If this motive would govern every speech and action, our life will be holy and acceptable to God. Only when we do all things in our Lord Jesus Christ’s name can we dispel selfishness and ungodliness from our conversations and activities.

The “name of the Lord Jesus” provides us with the blessed assurance that all matters of our relationship with God (i.e. worship and prayer) and all matters of our daily activities, are acceptable and pleasing to God. Living our lives in Christ’s name will grant us the confidence that the Lord is pleased with us, and that our ways will redound to His glory.

Let us also take note that “the name of the Lord Jesus” concerns His authority, His character, His truth, His will, His purposes, His pleasure and His glory. So living in accord with His name means to live in harmony with His revealed will, in subjection to His authority, and in dependence on His power. In other words, we are most concerned about His repute and glory. We will thus do nothing apart from His approval and blessing.

We are also exhorted here to say and do all things, “giving thanks to God and the Father by him”. In all our conversations and activities, let us thankfully remember that it is His grace that helps us to live and progress in life. A thankful spirit will enable us to be happy in all our enterprises, brave in all difficult circumstances and patient in adversities. Thanksgiving must pervade all realms of our lives. Let us also take note that it is by Jesus Christ that we are expected to render our gratitude to God. He is the channel by which all God’s goodness is poured upon us. Our thanksgiving will not be genuine and acceptable to the Father if we exclude Christ, who is His only begotten Son whom He has given unto us.

READ:

Colossians 3:16c

^16c Singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.

EXHORTATION:

The singing of Christians ought to rise from their hearts unto the Lord. It cannot be heartless singing. Our sacred songs ought to be the vocal expressions of our inner devotion to the Lord. David, the sweet psalmist of Israel, once said, “I will praise thee with my whole heart” (Psalm 138:1). Heartfelt singing must characterise all our singing of psalms, hymns and spiritual songs.

We sing not to show off our voices, singing techniques or abilities. We sing to communicate. Earlier in this verse, we were taught that our psalms, hymns and spiritual songs are for teaching and admonishing one another. So when we sing, our voices must express our heartfelt messages to one another. We sing not to entertain, but to edify one another. We also sing to express our heartfelt gratitude and worship to God.

When we sing, it is necessary to pay attention to the melody of the song and our rendition of it. However, our singing will be in vain if we do not sing it from our hearts with genuine feelings and understanding. The point that must not be ignored is this: our songs must be sung in a thankful spirit. The songs must be poured forth sincerely, rising from the humble and grateful hearts of believers. Let our singing be a very effective vehicle for the outpouring of our confession of sins, gratitude, faith, consecration, and joy before the Lord.

Hearty Christian singing can only be possible when our understanding is filled with the working of God’s grace in our lives. An understanding of God’s grace reminds singers that their salvation and all other blessings are not of themselves but from the gracious God who bestowed them freely. There is no room for self-praise, ambition, or high-mindedness when we sing with an awareness of His grace. Only when we sing with full understanding of the grace that is bestowed upon us can we genuinely sing praises to God.

Whether we sing with the congregation in the regular worship service on the Lord’s Day, in a mid-week meeting, in a fellowship gathering, in family worship, or privately, let us sing from our hearts to promote the glory of our gracious God. When we are totally dedicated to grow and serve in the beauty of His grace, our hearts shall render their songs to His glory. Let us sing “for the praise of the glory of his grace” (Ephesians 1:6).

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Colossians 3:16b

^16b Teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs.

EXHORTATION:

The songs that Christians sing must have marked difference from that of the world. Our music cannot be like the music of the world. While we sing unto the glory of God, the world sings to the pleasure of man. Most of the world’s music reflects the worldly thinking, passions and pursuits. The character of Christians’ songs and music must reflect the spiritual purposes for which the Lord has ordained singing in the church. Our songs should not be chosen for their entertainment value. We ought to sing not for sensory pleasure, but for mutual edification and for the glory of God.

Teaching and admonishing are two purposes of our songs and our singing. We ought to sing songs that provide Scriptural instructions for our souls. Our singing must be calculated to help us to grow in the knowledge of God’s Word. Though not everyone is called to the office of a pastor-teacher or preacher in the church, everyone is nevertheless exhorted to teach himself and one another through the singing of songs. How important it is then that we do not choose our songs merely for their pleasant tunes, but more importantly, for their sound biblical content! Through our singing, may the Word of Christ dwell in us richly with all wisdom.

Another purpose of our singing ought to be “admonishing”. This implies that we sing songs that will minister to each other’s moral and spiritual welfare. Our songs must be those that will urge and strengthen our resolve to live holy lives. So, it goes without saying that we must avoid songs that have a propensity for spiritual and moral corruption, or are of no particular spiritual and moral value.

Paul exhorts us to sing “psalms and hymns and spiritual songs”. “Psalms” refer to the book of Psalms and other psalms in the Old Testament. “Hymns” refer to songs or odes in honour of our God. Through hymns, we praise God for His greatness, His wonderful attributes, His truths, His mighty acts, etc. “Spiritual songs” refer to songs relating to spiritual things as opposed to carnal and worldly things. In spiritual songs, there will be testimonies of God’s goodness, prayers, spiritual encouragement, corrections, instructions, etc. May our songs and music always be sacred unto God’s glory and conducive to our growth in knowledge and holiness.

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Colossians 3:16a

^16a Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom.

EXHORTATION:

What is “the word of Christ”? It refers to the Scriptures of the Old and New Testaments. Christ is their Author and their subject matter. The Scriptures testify of Him. Jesus said, “Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me” (John 5:39).

So, when we listen to the words of the Bible, we are listening to Christ Himself. It should surprise no one that Christ has such titles as “the Word” (John 1:1, 14; 1 John 1:1-2; 5:7; Revelation 19:13), “the wisdom of God” (1 Corinthians 1:24, 30; Colossians 2:3), and “the truth” (John 14:6). He was “full of grace and truth” (John 1:14); in fact, “grace and truth came by Jesus Christ” (John 1:17)!

We honour Christ by honouring the Scriptures which testify of Him and His will. So Paul exhorts us, “Let the word of Christ dwell in you”. His Word must not be like a guest, a visitor, an acquaintance or a stranger with whom we cherish no special, devout and abiding relationship. His Word must not be like a friend whom we seldom meet up with, but rather, His Word should be as a resident member of our family with whom we are in constant and loving communication.

Let the Word of God dwell in you. To be sure, it is not enough for God’s Word to be on your study-tables, in your bags, in your hands or in your digital communication devices. Rather, you must yield yourselves as sacred “dwellings” to be occupied by His Word. It should be allowed to control and direct your lives at all times.

We are exhorted not only to let the Word of Christ dwell in us, but also to let it dwell richly in all wisdom. It must be allowed to teach, rebuke, correct, instruct, comfort and guide us, so much so that all its wisdom may be seen pre-eminently in all aspects of our lives.

Simply put, no other “occupant” is allowed to remain in us unless it is in full agreement with this chief dweller. Any other human thought, idea, ambition or craving that is contrary to the Word of Christ must be expelled at once. All our thoughts are to be vetted and approved by its wisdom. All our ambitions must be made hallowed by its wisdom. The wisdom of Christ’s Word must guide us all day long, and all the days of our earthly life. Christ’s Word must fully occupy us always. Let its glorious wisdom illumine us within, so that its splendour might shine through us.

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Psalm 19:13a

^13a Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me.

EXHORTATION:

This was a prayer that David, the king of Israel, made to God. In this prayer, he presented himself to God as “thy servant”. Though David was a mighty king on earth, he was never ashamed to think of himself as God’s servant. He acknowledged, at the height of his reign, that it was God who had placed him on the throne in order to do His will. So he humbly confessed before the Lord, “I am thy servant.”

In this real spirit of a true servant of God, the king sought God’s help to enable him to remain faithful and holy unto Him. Being God’s servant, he knew how culpable he would be if he were to sin against his God. So he detested displeasing God by trespassing His laws. His earnest desire and prayer in life was that he would not commit sin against his God.

In the preceding verse, he prayed, “… cleanse thou me from secret faults” (v. 12b). The “secret faults” refer to sins he had not yet recognised, and which remained hidden to him and others. Some sinful passions, thoughts and actions can be so ingrained in one’s way of life that one may fail to identify them as sins, which may furthermore remain hidden to all. Every servant of God, like David, would not like to see such secret sins remain in him, but that he would be purged of them all.

Then David also wanted God’s help to deal with what he called “presumptuous sins”. The word “presumptuous” translates a Hebrew word (zed) that literally means boiling, swelling or inflated. This Hebrew word has often been translated in the Bible as “pride”. So David was particularly referring to sins which proceed from self-confidence, selfreliance and self-exaltation. Such sins would inevitably lead to contempt of God’s majesty and glory. Rebellion and defiance of God’s holy will, instead of submission to service, would eventually characterise the one who commits presumptuous sins.

Unless God restrains us, our hearts will violently boil with a proud and insolent contempt of God. That is why David prayed that God would keep him back from presumptuous sins and not let them have dominion over His servant. Only divine power can restrain such loathsome sins from overpowering us. So, let us earnestly pray that God would prevent sin from dominating and ruining our lives of service unto Him.