Philemon 17—“If thou count me therefore a partner, receive him as myself.”

Paul’s appeal to Philemon reaches a tender and powerful point in this verse. Onesimus, once “unprofitable” (v. 11), was now returning as a changed man and, more importantly, as “a brother beloved” (v. 16). Paul therefore urges Philemon not to receive him merely as a returning servant, but with the affection due to one who now shares the same faith in Christ.

The word “partner” conveys fellowship. Paul was, in effect, asking Philemon, “If you regard me as one who shares with you in the fellowship of the Gospel, then receive Onesimus with the same warmth with which you would receive me.” Christian fellowship must therefore shape Christian relationships. The Gospel does not erase every earthly responsibility, but it profoundly changes how believers regard and treat one another.

Paul’s appeal also illustrates the ministry of reconciliation. He places his relationship with Philemon alongside Onesimus and pleads for a gracious reception. Paul’s intercession beautifully reflects the Gospel spirit of standing with another to promote peace and restoration.

Believers must beware of allowing past offences to permanently define those whom God has changed. Where there is genuine repentance and evidence of grace, forgiveness and restoration should be gladly pursued.

The church should be a place where converted sinners are not continually imprisoned by their past failures. Because Christ has received us by grace, we should be ready to receive one another in love: “Receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God” (Romans 15:7).