Proverbs 10:19—“In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise.”

This proverb warns us of the spiritual danger of excessive speech. “In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin”. Ant that means that when words multiply, sin is seldom far away. The more carelessly we speak, the more likely we are to exaggerate, gossip, complain, boast, criticise, flatter, or speak without understanding.

Scripture repeatedly urges caution in speech. James writes, “let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak” (James 1:19). Our words reveal the condition of our hearts, for Jesus said, “out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh” (Matthew 12:34). Therefore, uncontrolled speech is not merely a problem of the tongue; it often exposes pride, anger, foolishness, or a lack of self-control.

The second half of the proverb says, “he that refraineth his lips is wise”. Wisdom knows when to speak and when to remain silent. This does not mean that godliness requires silence at all times. Truth must be spoken courageously when necessary. But wisdom refuses to speak merely because an opportunity arises.

A believer should ask: Is this true? Is it necessary? Is it gracious? Will it edify?

Ephesians 4:29 commands us to speak only what is “good to the use of edifying”.

Our words can wound or heal, inflame or calm, destroy or strengthen. Therefore, let us pray for disciplined lips and wise hearts, remembering that sometimes the wisest word is the one we choose not to say.